One
thing we all have in common is making choices every day, whether we
like it or not. Decisions are a big part of our daily life and often we
struggle with making the right one. That’s when doubt, perfectionism and
distractions get in the way. And we end up regretting our choice,
feeling bad about it, and constantly wondering if we could have made a
wiser decision.
If
that sounds familiar, don’t worry. Sometimes we just need to choose an
option and make the most of it. But in case you often cannot make a
decision, here are some things you can do to make it easier.
1. Don’t overanalyze it.
Most
people tend to overthink the situation, even if it’s a simple one we
encounter daily. We often waste time deciding what to wear, whether to
call someone or not and what to eat for each meal.
In
cases like that, there’s no wrong option really. So just do it. Take
action right away before your brain has the chance to think of different
scenarios and confuse you.
2. Automate some decisions.
Every
time you make a choice, no matter how small or random, you’re investing
some of your decision making capabilities. And it’s a finite resource.
That’s why most people indulge in unhealthy and unproductive activities
in the evening, when they’ve already made many decisions throughout the
day.
But
you can prevent that from happening by automating some decisions you
have to make daily. Take your meals, for example. It’s much easier to
decide to eat the same thing every day for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
And just stick to it.
That
will save you so much time and worries in the future. And you’ll
finally have a meal plan. You can also set fixed hours for going to bed
and waking up. That leads to a structured day and better personal
organization.
I
personally like how many successful people wear the same thing every
day. Not having to decide what to wear takes away the stress about it. I
have implemented that for myself and have seen the results.
3. Be positive about the outcome.
No
matter what you choose, you can always make the best of it. How we
handle life is all about our attitude towards it and how we react to
what happens to us. So be optimistic. Know that you’re doing your best
and no decision can make you regret that.
4. Learn from your mistakes.
Every
bad choice in life results in experience and knowledge. We can move on
knowing what we shouldn’t do next time, and that makes things so much
easier. Don’t feel bad about what you did wrong. Don’t take it
personally either. Simply decide not to do the same thing again.
5. Let your decisions resonate with your goals in life.
Goal-oriented
individuals are more decisive. That’s because they’ve figured out what
they want, and what they don’t want, and remind themselves of that
daily. You can do it too. Be specific about your dreams and goals. Write
them down and see what you need to do and who you need to become to get
there.
Then,
whenever you face a challenge and need to take a decision, do it while
keeping your goal in mind. This way there won’t be any doubt as always
one of the possible choices will be related to your life goals.
6. Trust your instincts.
Often
other people will try to interfere, to talk you out of something you
truly want, or else. But you shouldn’t let them. Even if they love you
and want to see you succeed. That’s your path to walk and only you can
make the right decision. But there’s always a next one so you need to
keep going.
Trust
your intuition more than you trust other people and factors. Stop
looking out for signs from the universe or asking people to make a
choice on your behalf. Instead, get to know your inner self better. It
already knows the answer. You just need to get to it.
7. Be confident.
Confidence
is a powerful skill and helps in many situations. A confident person
feels comfortable in his skin, is sure in his abilities, and that helps
him let go of doubts and insecurity. He knows he has what it takes to
succeed and even if he fails, he’ll try again. That’s why a higher
self-esteem leads to being more decisive too. So work on your
confidence.
8. Be selective.
Understand
that you can’t have it all, and you don’t need to. Some people want to
choose all the possible options at once. But it just won’t work like
that. Our time and focus are limited. So we need to be selective in life
and make sure we don’t dedicate too much energy to meaningless stuff.
Choose
what’s important to you, what has worked in the past, what feels right
in this moment, and what you feel confident is good for you. That’s how
you start making decisions more easily and make sure you won’t regret
the outcome.
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